By Ahmed A.GPublished: March 4, 2009Posted in: How-To-Tags: girls, help a friend, How-To-, women
- If they stop and look at you … if they look at you a lot … if they laugh at your jokes … if they gaggle and act like drunk crazy girls.
- Here’s some help coming from a girls POV. If you’ve noticed that she has gradually began to get closer to you, ex: sitting with you at lunch, talking with you more, asking if you want to go do something, or hanging with your friends. She may also be mean to you: make fun of you when you do something stupid or have a good come back when you’ve completely set yourself up for it. Staring at you and looking away or acting like she was looking at something else when you notice. She may begin to take an interest in things you like and when you are sitting by her and either you arm or leg “accidentally” touches hers and she doesn’t move and if she does its to scoot closer to you.
- This is coming from a girl. I’m sort of shy when I like a guy. I flirt back if he starts it, but I’m usually don’t flirt with a guy I like unless I can tell he wants to. I’m usually more quite, but I smile a lot when he says something to me. A lot of times I make sure that he has a good “view” of me. When you talk to the girl you like, you should be able to tell if she likes it or not. If she laughs at the things you say, even it isn’t that funny, and if she pays full attention to you when you talk to her. I think letting a girl know you like her is always a good thing, because most of the time we can sense it anyway, even if we’re not sure about it. If she likes you back, she’ll tell you, but if not, she won’t think you’re weird for telling her. She’ll be flattered that someone likes her. So, flirt and if she responds well, tell her.
- All girls are different, some are the shy type, some are the more active type as in acting a bit more forward, a girl that is just naturally a shy type will express her like for you by trying to ignore u, hardly speeks to you but you will notice her stare(give you glances) and you may notice her try to look away quickly so that you don’t catch her, you may even catch her smile at you at times, it will seem very obvious by the way she tries to avoid u. You’ll just notice. Now on the other hand a girl that is more active will tend to stand closer to you when you talk with her and stuff… she may won’t to keep talking to a bit longer as in dragging the conversation I have much 2 say on this I’m an expert.
- If you want to know if she likes you get a few people around you and ask them all who they like just so when it comes to asking the girl you like, it will seem natural that you’re asking everyone. IF she stumbles for an answer or blushes or is like ‘uh no-one’ (giggle giggle) or looks at her friend for an answer, then you can be nearly 100% sure (not that good)
- 1. ask her friends; 2. ask her in person; 3. flirt and find out; 4. ask a friend to ask her
- I am a girl and somewhat shy, but when I like a boy I tend to look over at him a lot and smile when he talks to me (without even realizing it). If I pass him in the hallway I will poke him or hit him lightly or something too and keep walking like I didn’t do it. =)
- A lot of people say that a girl’s heart rate gets faster or she blinks faster if she is near the person she likes, but some raise the question “do I really have to measure her pulse to see if she me?” Well no! there is a MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH easier way. in fact, this is so easy, you will laugh at its simplicty, you don’t even have to talk to her, not even look at her, you can be a deaf mute and this will work. Here is how it works: Women are territorial, like cats. if the person you like sits next to you in class, scoot a little bit close to her, like 1/2 an inch (half an inch). since women have their “personal space” and their “other people space”, she may move farther away, this means that you are still in the “other people space”, you don’t want that, you want her NOT to move, ie. let you into her “personal space”, so what you should do is: 1. Move closer to her while talking or sitting (not too close, like 1-2 inches). 2. See if she moves away, if she does not, then congrats buddy, she likes you! (because she let you into her “personal space”).
- I hang out with and talk with a lot of girls and I’ve noticed some of their flirts: 1. A comeback that you’ve set up for yourself. 2. Any small tap or poke, or even just a hit on the arm. 3. Lots of laughing, smiling, staring. 4. If they pass you in a hall and say hello or do something to make you notice them.
- Also watch out. Girls like playing guys a lot. Why? For attention. They like to be “liked” or “wanted” by other guys. And its just part of the “female” genetic code. Girls will probably post and say there not like that, and 100% disagree with me….but deep down inside, they know its true. But mabey its just me, cause I havent found “her” yet (have tried, and still am…but its becomeing harder and harder as years go by) Anyway, I’ve been hurt a lot by girls. So just a warning to the guys still in highschool, just watch out and don’t jump completely into it. If you show too much interest you’ll get burned, and try to be a jerk. Although more girls will disagree with me (ive tried being the nice gentleman for way too long), treat girls like dirt and they’ll want you even more.
- I’m a SHY girl & this is what I do when I like someone and I’m not sure about whether the feeling is reciprocated: I try not to look at them. Confusing yes, but those kinds of things can be seen in someone’s eyes…hence, the eye aversion.
- if the girl is always calling you names with her friends and does not do that when it is just you 2 then you can tell that she likes you if she comes out of no where and put her arms around you then you can tell that she likes you a lot because this girls is doing that to me and I am about to put that mac game on her. yea so when a girl is always makeing fun of you thats because she thinks you are so sexy. and don’t be scared to go up to a girl when she is with her friends. her friends all ready know that the girl like you so don’t be shy. stand up and be a man. be when you get a girl make sure that you do that girls right give her everything. I was just like you shy to go 2 a girl to but the fine girl you know will go with you if you have the right game.
- (I’m a girl) You can tell if a girl sincerely likes you, when she hangs on every word you say. Meaning: you ask her something simple that doesn’t require a long answer, like “So you went to college to take up what?” And she replies, “For liberal arts.” If she really likes you she’ll try to add something to keep the conversation moving. She’ll add something like, “Yeah I wanted to take up something else but I…” or she may ask YOU something, “What did YOU take up in college?” When you speak to her and you’re looking into her eyes she’ll stare straight into yours and never look away b/c she’s so into your words, your voice, your thoughts. Many people say you can tell if a girl likes you if she touches you a lot and that’s true, but sometimes there isn’t a real reason to touch. So maybe she’ll shyly find an excuse to stand next to you although she can really move over alittle. THE MAIN WAY TO TELL: She pays more attention to you than anyone else. Test: have a friend (mutual) say hello to her while you’re talking to her. If she turns fast and says hello and then turns back to you as if she was never interrupted -good chance she likes you. Note: you can’t try it on HER friends. Because to throw you off, she may go into conversation with them -but then she’ll realize how rude that is, and try to add you in on the conversation. I hope that helps.
- That is very true she will sit buy you more often and also talk to you more and flirt with you like play around with you and stare, ask you questions and smile alot at you. As a girl with one of my guy friends I seem to smile alot and flirt with him also and play around with him, tease him and pick on him alot.
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